What women want. You've landed yourself a first date, an accomplishment indeed. But it's only the first step to securing a smooth transition into an eventful and exciting night. A first date is about an impression. A woman wants to feel that the man she is with has not only thought about the date but also prepared accordingly. Let me help you decipher her unspoken expectations for the evening and what she wants you to do but would never actually say. 1- Go the extra mile... or two If you greet her with a red rose and a smile you're sure to get a warm response. But why not turn up the heat and offer her a less stereotypical treat? If you already know some details about this woman, use the information to your advantage. If her favorite color is purple, give her a purple flower. Otherwise, use your imagination. If she's the playful type, she might enjoy a bouquet of lollipops to sweeten the night. Or, if she's of the more intellectual persuasion, perhaps offering her a copy of your favorite book might stack the odds in your favor. The key is creativity -- she'll be impressed if you've shown that you not only got her something, but that you thought about her while doing it. 2- Be polite, not pushy She may not tell you that etiquette is a priority, but be sure that she's keeping an eye on what you are, and perhaps more importantly, what you aren't doing. It's the little details that make the difference, like chewing with your mouth closed. Remember, nothing you have to say is either important or funny enough that it can't be said after you swallow. Do offer to open the door for her, but if she insists on doing it herself, be sure and let her. Another rule to remember: if you find yourself pining to tell that hilarious story of what came out of your body, she doesn't want to hear about it. Any stories that involve vomit or secretions of any sort (no matter how funny or appropriate you think they are) will generally be a complete turnoff to a woman. 3- Be complimentary Many men forget to notice and compliment their date's appearance. But please, be sincere (we can tell when you're using a line). There must be something about her outfit or her hair or the way she smells that you like; so don't silently sit there, say something! You can rest assured that she's spent a good portion of her time primping and preparing for this first date and it's important that you acknowledge her efforts.